Are you at home wanting to be a reality star? Do you have the talent and the will to sacrifice so dreams can come true? Will your name be called one day so that stars will want to dance with you? If you looked in the mirror would you even dance with yourself?

Answer the questions. The answers will give you a sense of where you are and how your life can shine. Here is a four step process so that you can find the STAR in you.

Step 1 is for Seek. The Bible says seek and ye shall find. What are you looking for in life? Life is inside out and not outside in. Many dreams and vision perish because they were never sought after. Have you ever wanted to go somewhere without knowing how to go?

Take a deep breath and realize that inside of you is the best of the best.

Step 2 is for Talent. What are you good at? Take your talents with you wherever you go. Success stories are made up of people who were ordinary that yearned to be extraordinary. Proverbs 18:16 says A man?s gift maketh room for him and bringeth him before great men. Find what your gift is so that it can take you places that you never dreamed of going to.

People will support you if they have a dream to sow into.

Step 3 is for Adjustment. This is the elevator stage of your life. One thing is for sure life will bring you highs, lows, ups and down. It’s not what happens to you it’s how you react to what’s happens to you. When you are born you don’t choose your name, family or economic background. If you let those circumstances get in your way you are only achieving excuses.

One way to make adjustments is to add just exactly what is meant for you.

Step 4 is for Represent. Each and everyday that you go out and seek, talent, and make adjustments you have to be the best that you can be. Represent who you are and the one that God made you uniquely to be. Keep rising through the good and the bad so that your light will shine trials into triumphs.

Being yourself is who you are and that’s what will lead you to your STAR.

Ty Howard is a good friend of mine and he tells me all the time that you may be delayed, but rarely denied. Guess what? Your favorite song is playing and the one you wanted to dance with all your life is inside of you.

Will you take this dance or stay in fear and live the rest of your life as a wallflower.

My late great mother’s favorite song was Shining Star by theManhattan?s. Don’t just be a STAR, strive to be a Shining STAR, because inside is who you are.